What is it we want from love???
I ask this because I have seen it from all sides! I have seen the "happily" married, the long time relationship and the long term single but it all comes down to the same thing. The grass is always greener! The single want love and marriage, which you should know don't come hand in hand! The married want freedom to do whatever they want! So what is it? Is it forever compromising for another person or wanting something more but not too much? Is there no in-between? But of course there is not! To be in a relationship is to give up something because not one human is the same!! And to be alone or "independent" is to give up on a chance to share your life! So what is it we must do? Each scenario is to loose at least one thing??
So love must then be a choice! From each day until the next!
So when we are in the thick of a fight with the one we love we have to think... ...do we lose from ourselves does someone else? For to be either single or with someone is a choice to go either way!
 I wish I knew what way to go! But like I have said I have seen both sides and to me both look bleak! So what do we want from love? Now we know there is no Cinderella, no Prince Charming . What do we get from love, now we know the ways in which it cuts and makes us bleed. And yet we hope for love like a babe yet learning the ways in which we can hurt! It is the unsolvable test. The question without an answer and still I ask... ... What is it I want from love?